Coupled With D&S

Real, nonjudgmental advice about dating, sex, love, and life from a thirty-something couple that has seen it all over thirteen years.

Trust us. We live in Brooklyn. (Joking. Kind of.)

We’ve Got Clients

We haven't been around that long. We are accepting clients.

We haven’t been around that long. We are accepting clients, however. It’s been fun.

There are a lot of exciting and unexpected things about this whole project. To be sure, we didn’t anticipate the volume of questions we’d get. It quickly became clear that there was way more demand for advice from both male and female perspectives than we, with our full-time careers and other interests, could ever fulfill.

As an experiment, we put some options up for paid advice — either detailed profile feedback or profile rewriting.

We’re happy to say that we’ve had several clients in each category, and it’s been a blast. We love talking with new people at length and helping them work through their problems. Working with clients also gives us the benefit of having a true back and forth with the people we advise. It gives us the opportunity to try different approaches and really hammer things out. We’re going to continue to offer free advice to specific questions that make good reading and see how it goes with the paid advice.

If you’ve read our advice, you know we take all our work seriously. It’s nice to be rewarded just a little bit for all the thought and effort we put in. If you’re interested in rewriting your profile or upping your dating game and want our dual perspectives, send us an email at