Coupled With D&S

Real, nonjudgmental advice about dating, sex, love, and life from a thirty-something couple that has seen it all over thirteen years.

Trust us. We live in Brooklyn. (Joking. Kind of.)


In our short time doing this, these are by far the most common questions we get apart from actual questions about problems with sex and relationships.

Will you write about yourselves and your sex life?

No. We will write about you and yours.

Will you have sex with me?


But I’m really sexy.

We said no.

What makes you qualified to do this?

We’re empathetic, have good imaginations, and both read and talk a lot. Caveat emptor.

Will you give me feedback on my profile?

Yes, but not for free. Your profile doesn’t make a good blog post. We get flooded with requests for profile feedback and only have limited time for this whole project. If you really want a critique, click here.

What does it take for you to answer my question?

Time. And your question has to be good.

What are your tips for a better dating profile?

The quickest, dirtiest tips: have good photos, tell an appealing story about yourself that also offers an invitation to other people, and write more detailed profiles (people who like women), but don’t tell everything about yourself (everyone). When contacting people, nicely or inquisitively refer to something in the person’s profile and don’t cut and paste one-line messages (men). There. Now we’ve give away all our wisdom, and you don’t need to read this site.

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