Coupled With D&S

Real, nonjudgmental advice about dating, sex, love, and life from a thirty-something couple that has seen it all over thirteen years.

Trust us. We live in Brooklyn. (Joking. Kind of.)

Ask Us

We offer two types of services: free advice based on your questions and paid feedback and editing of your dating site profile.



Advice (free)

Advice is always free; we only ask that you allow us to put your question and our response (with your identity omitted) in a post to this website. This is your risk-free chance to tell your story to the world and get insightful, nonjudgmental, nontraditional feedback from both David & Sally. And you’ll take our advice, right? That’s right, take it.





Dating Profile Help (paid)

We get a lot of requests for specific feedback about dating profiles on sites like OKCupid,, JDate, etc. We’re happy to do that but, because it involves a lot of detailed work that isn’t interesting to a general audience, we offer this as a paid service. We’re terrific writers by the way, and our strategies have helped friends bump up the quantity and quality of profile visitors and dates in the past.