Coupled With D&S

Real, nonjudgmental advice about dating, sex, love, and life from a thirty-something couple that has seen it all over thirteen years.

Trust us. We live in Brooklyn. (Joking. Kind of.)

Author: D&S

Cross-Dressing Conundrum

A 42 year-old straight male who cross-dresses, is only interested in women, and only wants an LTR writes, “I’m stuck with a paradox: I have discovered that if I am not perceived as forthright from the start (I don’t always dress up, just like women don’t always dress up), the revelation of what makes me different can be off-putting. On the other hand, if I put who I am out there from the start, no one picks me. OKCupid has in the past provided women who pick me and that has been extremely rewarding. How can I increase my ability to find women who would want, not merely accept what makes me different?”

And We’ve Touched A Nerve!

Hours after putting this site online and soliciting questions via OKCupid, we’ve received a number of requests, which is pretty amazing. It looks like we’ve hit upon a hidden demand for advice from two perspectives. We thought you were out there, and it turns out we were right! We’re already in conversation with a few folks, and we should begin…

We’re Ready to Pop this Cherry!

We’ve just gotten this site up and running and are looking for some folks who need some good advice. Even though it’ll be our first time, we’re pretty sure it will be good for both of us … er, the three of us.┬áSend us an e-mail with a question, and we’ll get started.

A Cornucopia of Advice: So Much to Give

We’ve got a lot to say. After a lot of hard work (mostly because David was hungover) getting this site online, we’re now at that point where we can start taking names and answering questions. Actually, we won’t take names really. We’ll keep those a secret if we get them, and we don’t even need them. We have a lot…